Christmas

So it's Christmas time again. Do you find yourself loving it or loathing it? I went through my loathing phase and now after all those years I have finally rid myself of the reason for the loathing.
As children we were treated to the joys and adventure of the Christmas season. As adults we must face the ugly facts. There is no Santa for us adults so the gifts,celebrating becomes our responsibility. I accepted that long ago but very begrudgingly.
A few years back I found that eliminating the horrors of the gifting game helped relieve some of the stress. I do not give gifts,nor do I care to receive them as they are a sign of obligation and playing the well orchestrated Christmas tradition. If you want to treat me to a hug or a kind word I accept that more willingly than any gift you could offer.
I give my family the gift of my time and effort preparing my home for the holidays and sharing a good time of fellowship and fond memories. No strain on my budget,no time wasted looking for the "perfect gift"and no trip to the store for an exchange!
Besides the saving of my limited sanity I have more time to reflect on those wonderful memories of Christmas Past and I have a more spiritual feel for the Christmas Present. The gift of Jesus and his goodness that surpasses any and all gifts you could ever give.
So, with that said I am sending to each and everyone of you a heartfelt hug and a wish for peace and joy. Jesus is the reason, don't let the season be lost in a fog of dispair and debt,just share your love,it's more than enough!